Sunday, July 15, 2012

Sometimes life takes sharp turns you never expected life expected life to take. And when life doesn’t take such sharp turns life seems gloomy. Either way life doesn’t seem what we want it to be. Everything needs to have a perfect balance in life. But what I think, if everything in life goes balanced and smooth for a long period life becomes boring and it seems as if we are not living.

Life should be an unbalanced mixture of sharp turns and gloominess, of sad and happiness. I can say this because I have been living such an imperfect mixture of life and I think my life is somewhat perfect. I am saying ‘somewhat perfect’ because ‘Nothing Can Be Perfect’. I love this concept of imperfectness. Well, actually I am tired and sick of ‘perfect’ness. If some of my friends and my parents read this, they definitely are not going to believe that I am saying this because they think that I have a penchant of being perfect. But, when it comes to just living life, I just want to live it. I do not want to be perfect there. (Just see, this piece of writing itself is imperfect without a title.)  I just want to be happy and make others happy. Why think for tomorrow when you even don’t know whether you are going to have it or not?  What you have, you have it for today, you can never have it for tomorrow. I might sound preachy, but THIS IS THE TRUTH.

To say it like ShahRukh Khan, “Jiyo! Khush Raho! Muskurao! Kya pata …..Kal Ho Na Ho!!!”

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“Aaj…aaj ek haseen aur baant loon……aaj ek dua aur maang loon…..aaj ek aansoon aur pi loon…..aaj ek zindagi aur jee loon…..aaj ek sapna aur dekh loon…..aaj…..kya pata….. Kal Ho Naa Ho!!!”
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Friday, May 11, 2012

From Uranus

Anwesha walked into the lab just like every day. She had just completed her new thesis and was just waiting for some of the additional formalisms to be carried out. She started going through her thesis and was trying to figure out any advanced modules she can take up to improvise. Just then, she received an anonymous call. The caller turned out to be Dr. Ihan Paul, the pioneer of Geology and Extra Terrestrial Sciences. Anwesha couldn’t believe that she is talking with “The Ihan Paul”. Dr. Ihan informed her that he has discovered a new project and he needs Dr. Anwesha to assist him with the project. But when Anwesha asked about the project, he told that he can’t tell her without her confirmative nod to assist him. Anwesha took no time to say yes for the project. After all, it is Dr. Ihan! Dr. Ihan asked her to meet him at his lab the next day at 9:30 in the morning. Anwesha was really happy but she pondered that why Dr. Ihan called only her. There are many radio biologists but why her! And what could be so secretive about that project.

Anwesha was one of the brightest radio biologists but she was humble enough to acknowledge the fact. She loved following her regime strictly and was never over possessed. But she was extra sincere. There were issues that boggled her mind now and then, and she tried to devise steps towards them. A girl with a clear vision, she is sufficient for herself.

The next day, Anwesha woke up with a look into the day ahead of her. She wanted to apprehend what was waiting for her but she rarely had apprehensions. It was a fine morning. The e-walls showed a temperature of 42 degrees and the visibility hour for the sun to be 5 hrs. That was a great sign to start a new day. She took in her nutrition capsules and checked her nutrition levels. She reached Dr. Ihan’s lab at 9:20 am. She saw some researchers busy working there. They are perhaps Dr. Ihan’s team. She saw Dr. Terra in the waiting area. Dr. Terra and she had both worked together for a common project in the past. Dr. Terra was one of the most amazing chemical researchers she has ever met. She moved to the waiting area. Dr. Terra and she exchanged formal greetings. She came to know that Dr. Terra was also invited by Dr. Ihan for some project, maybe it’s the same project she is invited for. Dr. Ihan walked in, sharp at 9:30. He welcomed them both and invited them to his cabin.

“Thank you both for coming here. It’s about a project that was discovered just yesterday. And that’s why I need your help.”Dr. Ihan said. “But why us?” asked Anwesha. Dr. Ihan replied, “Well, you two are the most eminent and dedicated researchers in your respective fields and both support the cause for reviving the resources our earth had in abundance before.” “So is this about this?” asked Dr. Terra. “Partially yes”, replied Dr. Ihan, and said “let me talk about the project. You both know that the petroleum that was once available abundantly is now scarce and it’s going to finish in just a year from now. The thing that was once available just by paying money is now a luxury available to the petro card holders; even they can access only two litres a year. The fellows at the UNO want us to find a substitute for the petroleum within the next 10 months and I am afraid no significant work has been done till now.” “So, are we here to discover petroleum or something”, asked Dr. Terra. Anwesha said, “Is it really so?” “Not exactly!” replied Dr. Ihan, “Actually one of our space rovers returned some samples from Uranus yesterday. I found a sample of a rather interesting rocky material among the others. It has radioactive qualities and a rather strange greenish substance that resembles chlorophyll pigments. In addition, it is amalgamated with a strange chemical that we are unaware of till date. I examined it and I guess we can do something on it. I mean, it can be developed to act as a substitute for petroleum. If it can, then it’s well and good, but if it’s not, then we can come up with a new substance. Right? What do you think?” “Well, I need to see the substance first” Anwesha said. “Of course. But, you have to sign an agreement before that, confirming doing the research along with us.” Dr. Terra and Anwesha exchanged glances and after a few moments affirmed to the proposal. They took out their signing devices and signed on the interface at Dr. Ihan’s cabin. The three of them then walked into a well protected chamber. The chamber housed that substance, a substance from a strange planet Uranus; a substance that can change their lives on earth, the substance definitely had potential. The substance was kept in a Silicate-Iridium container. “Stunning!” gasped Anwesha. “And you have to work on this stunning piece from now. Today is the 5th of January and we have authentication on this substance, and hence the research, till the 12th of June. On the 12th, at 11:30 pm, this substance will be handed over to the International Radiology and Geology Agency for sending it back to the ISS. So, we have 160 days with us. Let’s begin.” said Dr. Ihan and showed both Dr. Terra and Anwesha their working units.

Anwesha started examining the sample provided to her. The substance had very unusual radioactive qualities. It was an unusual kind of radiation. The pigments that resembled chlorophyll were another mystery. Perhaps, the radiations affected the pigment,s but it was not clearly perceptible. She used the pigmentolium to observe the pigment’s activity but it didn't show any significant observations either. Throughout the day, Anwesha couldn't find anything significant about the substance. Anwesha saw Dr. Ihan and Dr. Terra working, through her borosilated window. She saw Dr. Ihan rarely moved from his unit. He remained glued to his place but he always maintained a calm face. Composed as always, he was deeply engrossed in his work. Dr. Terra, however, portrayed various changes in her emotions during her work. The work continued.

On the 29th of February, they had a formal meeting to discuss their findings and proceedings on their research. Anwesha presented the particulars from her research. She said, “I have discovered the nature of radiations. It’s sort of novel. It’s a purplish-white radiation with properties of iodine in it. Yes, iodine. The radiations are not exactly getting radiated. I mean they are emanating from them but they are not lost completely to the surroundings. In fact, they are absorbing the properties from their surroundings and are converting it into another form. The pigment found in the substance, I think, is perhaps the source of the radiations. I can say this because the pigment has some iodine like properties as well; though it has some additional properties, some resemble Iridium’s and some are still unidentified. The pigment is not exactly green. It changes color. That is, it changes its pigment formulae with respect to time and the radiation. The formula, that I first identified, was an amalgam that contained iodine and some other elements. After the first period evaluation, which is around 20 days, it changed its formulae again. It has now a compound that contained carbon. Actually it was an allotrope of it. Among the other elements, one resembled Iridium, but the rest are still a mystery for me. I hope you may have the answers for the mystery elements Dr. Terra.” Dr. Terra looked up and said, “Some of the mysteries are still to be unraveled. Yes, I have identified some of the elements but there are numerous others which are still to be identified. The thing, that you are calling as resembling iodine is in fact not iodine but a chemically-modified compound that has the same number of electrons always. However, it loses protons in order to combine with others. That is, it forms a compound not by donating or accepting electrons, but by protons. I have observed it to be rarely donating protons. All the time, I mean frequently, it accepted protons to make bonds. So, it’s rather an unusual behaviour. Also, I have discovered yet another element; actually I don’t know whether it is really an element or something else. It’s like a vapour with no protons, at all, in its nucleus. It has only two neutrons and five electrons. And it seems rather odd in its chemical properties because it doesn't show a stable set of properties, they vary from time to time.” “That’s rather peculiar. I hope it’s something that is native to Uranus because earlier we discovered a similar kind of substance which showed different properties every time it was inspected!”, exclaimed Dr. Ihan and said “I guess whatever we have found out till date is pretty good but, we need to find something more. Finding an allotrope of carbon is really a breakthrough. That means it surely possess something meaningful for us. I hope to find a way out to deal with those allotropes and the radiations. Yes, one more important thing, I want you people to know, is that the pigments that you say may be the cause of radiations are actually the source of radiation. I have confirmed the fact. So, let’s proceed to our work stations. I hope we will definitely find something by June 10th. That’s the day for next phase of assessment and discussion and then we will convey our successful findings, hopefully, to the International Radiology and Geology Agency on the 12th of June.”

May 1st . Just 40 days left. Anwesha thought she has to do something else. She just can’t keep staring at the sample and perform some test based experiments. What they needed now is a major breakthrough. She has to take some viable steps, but what? Should she expose the sample to high temperature…No, because if it actually contains flammable substance, she doesn't even know the volume of explosion it may result in. She still has not been able to find out the exact properties, that is the flammable properties, of the radiations. But she has to take a risk. What if she takes the pressure in control and slowly manipulate the ratios? She thought of taking that risk. She started all that she can do. But, nothing significant did happen. Days rolled by. Tomorrow, they have their next and the last assessment. Two days after, their hope, officially, will die. Anwesha thought, she should go back home. She should spend a few moments alone before the moment dooms on her. She took the sample with her and went to her home. She kept on thinking but she didn't know exactly what was in her mind. She couldn't even sleep throughout the night. She moved out of her room, took out the sample and just gaped at it. She just hoped for some miracle to happen. She has found so much but nothing has proved to be actually useful. She wanted to find something meaningful, if not petroleum properties, something which could have been of some use. But she has found nothing more than some mysterious properties which didn't seem to be of any use now.

The next day. She went in to the lab. They had their assessment discussion and as expected, it was decided that the sample will be handed over after 48 hours. Dr. Ihan asked them to prepare their thesis on the findings, whatever they may be. Anwesha moved on to her work station and started on with the thesis work. She was kind of sad and gloomy. On the 12th, at 10 am they prepared themselves for the handover. They had to deposit the samples provided to them, for research, to the prime source in the silicate- Iridium container. Anwesha thought to have a last look at the sample. She took the sample to her work area and looked. To her amazement she found a different, altogether different, form of radiation. This was more severe. It had a more dynamic behaviour and the pigment was not just a pigment any more. It was a more prominent substance. It had shown the property of growth. It has now a substantial growth associated and when she tried to find any other properties; she discovered that it is perhaps showing some locomotion. If this actually is something, she has perhaps found out the most amazing things which SETI has been trying to find out since decades. But how did this happen?  The handover process was scheduled at 11:30 and she is supposed to return the sample by now. But….She took a closer approach on the properties and moved the temporometer backwards for a few hours. She found out that the sample has responded to some external temperature issues. And it had now some terrestrial properties. Anwesha couldn’t stop herself and stirred in to find more. She saw more allotropes of carbon and some of nitrogen too. Dr. Ihan then walked into her work area and asked her to deposit her sample. Anwesha called him and asked him to just have a look. It certainly has to be the most major breakthroughs of human civilization.

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[       This piece of writing was actually written when I was in my 11th grade. But some parts, specially the characters have been modified. This modification is dedicated to the 4 years of my engineering life at my college, My ITER. I love my college and am already missing it. I was an IT- A. Initials of the characters played here signify that. Ihan-Terra-Anwesha. Moreover, the planet Uranus specify me, as it's the initial of my second name.
By: -  I.U.  of  I.T. A    ]

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Thursday, April 5, 2012

A lesson to learn

Sometimes life has two ways but sometimes it has many. Choosing between two ways is way too difficult than choosing among many. I can say this because if you have two options to choose from, you would have discovered all the possibilities involved- what you are going to get and what you are going to lose. But if you have many, there may not be a clear distinction between what you get and what you lose.
Ultimately, its you who have to decide. Its you who have to select whether to follow the gains or to follow the loses.

I don't know, what is the right way and which option is the correct one, but I always like to see possibilities in the perspective of gaining. I mean, suppose I choose one option. Definitely, there would be two aspects- you gain something and you lose something. But if I start looking at  what I have lost by choosing the option, then I will definitely never be happy. So, its way better, if I choose to see what I have gained. After all, life is all about living and living positively.

As a child, I read Gandhiji's talisman in the front pages of our NCERT Social Science books. It said,"whenever you are in pain and despair, always look for those who are bellow your level, who are suffering more than you. And you will then feel how privileged you are." I, sort of, love this talisman because whenever I feel bad or miss something, I feel good if I remember this. But important thing is to remember it then and there because normally in low moments, you find it hard to concentrate on good thoughts. This is what people say. I, however,find it easy to do so.

Yesterday, I went to an orphanage. And that was exactly not an orphanage. At least, I didn't feel so. I can say this because the children over there are so much happy and jovial, you can hardly say that they miss anything in their life. They are living there with all the happiness in the world.....they feel so. There is a child of around three years age who is very loving. The in-charge told us that she has a late mental development. But, what I found out was she was much intelligent than many of us. She has the gift of love and the gift of smile. She kept us all grounded for all the moments we spent there. We almost forgot who we are. It was a feeling even words can't describe. So,if they can take life so easily, if they are not even giving a second thought to the option they could have, if they are taking life with all the beauty of it and are forgetting the losses they have gone through, then why we people having so much in life grumble for small things.  Its a lesson that we have to ,learn from those kids. Why can't we understand that whatever we have is more than enough. God has given us so much. We have been blessed with all the beautiful things. We should be grateful. I am not preaching or advising, but just give it a thought. After all, its just One Life To Live!!

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Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Once in a blue moon, once in college life!


When I first placed my first foot in my college life, I was not very sure what’s going to happen next. I mean, I didn’t have much apprehensions, I had some, but not as is normally expected. Well, what I mean to tell here is that I had no plans when I came here, rather I would say, I was in a state of “forget-all-plans”. I thought college life would be the same things as I have always thought of…..attend classes, jot down notes, behave crazy in the fiesta and whatever..... I was indifferent to anything that came my way and thought just to let things the way they are. I was in some “out-of-the-world” kind of state…..no special plans, nothing bothered me. Now, this is not a writing about the same old story of how college life is everything in a student’s life, how “no more friends groups, no more mass bunks, no more b’day parties” , blah blah blah.
I am writing this because I feel a lot has changed since I entered this college and the same applies to me too. After all, change is the only thing that is permanent in nature. So, today. Today is the 29th day of February. The day that marks the leap year. It’s a special one as it comes every four years. Sounds clichéd…..does it? So why I have named this piece of writing as “Once in a blue moon…..”? If that’s the question, then let me tell one thing, this is the day, we never had in our college life, nor will we have it again,…..together. Well, now that’s what makes it special. A thing which is even rarer and more precious than a blue moon. We have had many moments in these four years, some good, some bad, some stupid, and some not worth remembering. But this is one day, just a single piece, more special and unique than a singleton! Just one day which will be the only moment that has never repeated in all these years, a day which we had never lived, a day which we would never have again….. a day which never can be changed again and no one can ever be able to do so. If a birthday celebration plan in 1st year goes wrong, it can be changed or adjusted in the following year or something of sort…..but this day…..never ever can be modified or reframed. So, it’s you know, sort of a permanent thing.

Coming to today, it’s one of the most special days I had in my college life. Comparing to the person I was, with no apprehensions and special plans, I wanted to make this day a very special one. A day, which can never be changed, being planned by a person who herself had changed. Ironical. Though I always welcome changes….. (remember Mohabbatein! ). We had our usual classes but classes are a part of the things I enjoy in college. (Sorry guys….who don’t enjoy them.)

Even the classes seemed special today. Actually everything did. I wanted to feel each moment that passed by. The butterflies, the birds, the setting sun, the sky, everything and to top it all a small outing just outside the college with friends. Usually, we do so but today we did everything in a special way and with a desire to make it good. That’s what made it more special than was planned for. Everything seemed so splendid, so sweet and so very wonderful that even expressing them in words is just next to impossible. Everything and every moment the day unfurled for me was truly special and unique. And so it was truly once in a lifetime kind of experience. Just like ONCE IN A BLUE MOON….. And just ONCE IN MY COLLEGE LIFE!!

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Monday, December 12, 2011

Right from the platter!

If you are passionate about one thing in your life, and there’s no other thing that you can even think of, then definitely destiny will play its way to shape it for you. But it’s you who has to smoothen it further and work for it with all the passion. That is, if you have a dream and you work to achieve it, you will definitely achieve it.

Pick up any example. I mean example of any personality who made it large. By the way, I got the recipe for this article from a recent reality show for chefs called “Master Chef India 2”. Being a food lover, I love watching reality cook shows. I have followed (though not all episodes) Master Chef Australia, Master Chef USA, and Hell’s Kitchen, to name a few. I was not a very regular viewer of Master Chef India-2 though, for which I can blame a bad internet connection and absence of a TV. However, my vacations started, I got access to the TV (thank God for that) and I loved watching the show. That was the 10th day of December, Saturday. The participants (8) were assigned a task to cook the dish of a 2 Michelin Star Chef of Hong Kong. They were supposed to work in pairs. At a point of time when nervousness comes naturally, I saw Jyoti ji consoling Joseph (who were both a team) just like a mother would do when her child loses confidence or/and is nervous. She was asking him to just relax and….. Wow….This happens only in India…..The following day was the elimination round.

11th Day of December.  That team was in the elimination round. Finally Jyoti ji got eliminated. But, once her name was called upon for elimination, I saw Chef Vikas Khanna saying some very humble words to Jyoti ji and even touching her feet. He said that he wants to touch the feet of a mother who is of no comparison to any chef in the world. He said that this is the reason why no food cooked by any of the world’s greatest chefs could match the essence of a food cooked by a mother. And believe me I was watching the show spellbound and this part of the show was the “wow factor” for me. I mean a Michelin star chef himself praising the dish cooked by a participant, who is a mother, was just something… You will never experience such things on a Gordon Ramsay Show, never ever.

Chef Vikas Khanna who hails from Amritsar, Punjab is now one of the most prestigious hospitality group owners in the US. His success story might not be so dramatically discussed by some. It might be just another story. But, he is a personality who can easily be taken as a source of inspiration. From cooking in ‘langars’ to being an executive Michelin star chef of the Junoon Hospitality Group cannot be just another story. It takes the exact temperature, the right amount of spices, the perfect condiments and precisely chosen ingredients to make a good dish. But the precise garnishing and the specific attitude makes it perfect.

What I mean to tell is that, he had a passion for food from his childhood. He wanted this to be his life. He worked for his passion and he achieved it. Sounds simple, does it? But believe me, it is not. Having a clearly defined and distinguishing passion is not that easy. It even takes half a lifetime to discover your passion. But if you have it, just work to make it happen. And that is not easy as well, but not trying is worse than failing. 

Like I always say, keep dreaming and make them real.
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Update (December, 2016): I have been following Chef Vikas Khanna's shows because he inspires me. His interaction with people in his 'Twist of Taste' episodes are so humble and motivating. Truly, a gem of a person! 
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Wednesday, September 14, 2011

For Heaven's Sake..... I am
NOT A MACHINE
A lot has been going on these days. Vostok has stopped thinking about all this. She doesn’t even know how to react to these issues. Well… it’s actually not an issue but the way it’s going on these days it seems to be so. The environment, the surroundings, everything seems to be moving in a very fast pace and the poise that Vostok has been maintaining till now seems to lose its ground. It seems as if something is there that she is trying to figure out but just can’t. She can feel it very close to her heart but she just doesn’t know how to seek it. Well… wait a moment….. very close to her heart…!! It seems ridiculous. Yeah, I mean she has a heart, right? If yes, why do others do not feel it. I mean, if she has got a “Real” heart, one should feel it. The ones living in her proximity has never ever felt that she too has a heart. Is it a problem with them or is it true that she doesn’t have a heart at all?
Well, that question is still left unanswered. Vostok, from her birth till date was blessed with a beautiful gift of poise and patience. She never knew what it felt like to live life without poise. Her surroundings were always like she imagined it to be. Life was cheerful, always. If ever anything came her way that she has not planned for or has never imagined it that way, it had to change…may be she tried and changed or else nature did it for her. Life was like wearing rose colored glasses. Everything was so calm and eternal. But…..

(to be continued…..)

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Friday, August 12, 2011

And the moon got lost.....

And the moon got lost
When there was the silence of the words
Walking alone to the old birch tree
The rats were still racing on
And the moon got lost…

And the moon got lost
The clouds were on a marathon
Yet the stars twinkled with
Light and cheery, zest and merry
And the moon got lost…

And the moon got lost
The birds chirped, the bees hummed
The sun was wide awake
The leaves dried and the flowers withered
And the moon got lost…

And the moon got lost
The sandy breeze with the fragrance within
Whipped and circled and told some tale
The tides mystified and roared with laughter
And still the moon got lost!

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Thursday, June 30, 2011

TIMES CHANGE !!


Change. It’s the nature’s nature. Whether we welcome it or are just ignorant about it, change does happen. It, I believe, is the fundamental law of nature and the sustenance of life. Well, just to explain my point a bit more, just imagine…..what we all are doing in this world!! Of course we are living our lives. But, to ‘live a life’ we need some basic requirements. Roti, kapda aur makaan, it might sound clichéd, but it is. And the entire world just revolves around this. I came across a beautiful concept of life on the website of a snack brand. It goes like this: Every crime that is done on this earth is just because of hunger. So pacify hunger and stop crime. Unusual, but true to the core. Just think, we are always striving to get better- getting better education, better living condition, better ethics… Doing in a better manner means changing the way it existed before. For example, History lessons in our education system-teach us how the world changed in due course. Science-teaches us the conditions that existed before and how these were changed by some new inventions, discoveries, technologies, whatever. Every aspect…..you just pick up one…..is a study of changes that happened and changes that are yet to be made. So, as I said earlier, Change IS the fundamental law of nature. It’s the basic property. And hence, we have no choice but to accept it.


Well, I always believe in the fourth dimension and very much agree with the dynamism associated with it. Now, a question might arise that nothing is static (as everything changes), so why do I have to agree with the dynamism? Whether I agree or not, the dynamism will still be there. Why do I have to state it loud? The reason is, the dynamism I am referring to is just not ‘change’. It’s the dynamism of the change. That is, the rate at which the change occurs. And that is why I believe in the dynamism of the 4th dimension. This dynamism has been a sort of obsession for me since my childhood. I mean, I keep on wandering what exactly keeps on happening. How would we be able to find out correctly the quantities associated with it? And if ever we find out a way, a method, to calculate the numbers associated or the calculations that are to be done will it be 100% correct? I mean, we may feel that the way we are approaching is correct, but still there might be something, hidden or unraveled, that actually will be leading us in a wrong direction even without our knowledge. Well, thoughts like this always kept me puzzled. Genesis is believed to be the greatest puzzle till date. But what concerns me is the puzzle that existed before genesis. Genesis was just a change made.

For getting some diet for my odd inquisitiveness, I relied upon books. But gradually the puzzles increased in numbers. Some got solved but the solutions were over ruled by the number of questions. So I decided to take a break…..to just live my life…..and forget about the oddities for a span of time. But, life is all about oddities. The beautifulness of life is the oddities wrapped. Life teaches more than books. Actually to state otherwise, books are the portrayal of life itself. Hence, reading bountiful books would be a feast for my inquisitive mind (odd inquisitiveness- as stated by some)…..I thought so. But, I tell you, books are a real epidemic…..once you fall in for them, you just can’t get out. It spreads and spreads and spreads. It happened with me too. I just fell in for them and they became an addiction. Well, don’t think I am talking about my textbooks only….. I am referring to the solution corner of the puzzles. Book is just a synonymic term which encompasses everything, textbooks, media, any source of knowledge…..  The more I wanted to know about the dynamic nature of the 4th dimension, the more mysterious it became. But that’s the way it is expected to be. Despite of knowing all these, our heart never stops trying. It’s the basic human nature after all. Our brain wants more. It just wants to know more and more…..actually it wants to know everything about everything in this universe and beyond…..This never stops. You feed the mind with a new stuff, it will desire for knowing even more. It wants to know the dynamism of its own self because it loves change…..And Times Change.

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Sunday, June 12, 2011

Life, happiness and dreams

"Happiness is not something that happens. It is not the result of good fortune or random chance. It is not something that money can buy or power command. It does not depend on outside events, but rather how we interpret them. Happiness, in fact, is a condition that must be prepared for, cultivated, and defended privately by each person. People who learn to control inner experience will be able to determine the quality of their lives, which is as close as any of us can come to being happy." 
--Mihaly Csikszentmihayli 



Yeah,its completely true to the tee. I have seen people measuring the level of happiness they are feeling. But I wonder, can happiness be quantitative!? I mean if you are happy, you are just happy and nothing. No other issue, stands between you and your happiness. If you are happy now, forget everything and just be happy. Why mix feelings? Just live the moment. I may seem preachy, but I am telling it out of my own experience.....whenever I am happy and I just stay happy, I feel really happy and everything turns happy and the moment turns out only for me. But, if I try to just give a thought that now I am happy.....as times change....will the moment change for me in the near future.....and guess what? It actually changes.....not because it was destined to, but I made the moment change just because of my thoughts. You see, thoughts really change your life. It makes you happy if you want yourself to be. Oh, I have been blabbering about being happy, happy moments and all happy things. I can't stop myself because the occasion is itself very happy for me. And to add on it has been made precious by my both my parents and friends, people who care for me and are really precious for me. Life is full of such short and sweet moments. We just need to find them and live them to the full. What happens next will be taken care when the appropriate time comes.

Dreams sometimes may make you happy and sometimes may not. But, as I have said before, it all depends on you how you perceive things. Life without a dream is not life at all. We should hold fast to dreams,for if dreams die, life is a broken-winged bird that cannot fly. Hold fast to dreams, for if dreams go, life is a barren field frozen with snow. Dreams are eternal, dreams are divine. Live your dreams because life is all about living, short and sweet moments.. of your dreams and celebrating every good thing, however small it may be. After all, its just one life to live....and we must live fully!


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As a blogger, one of the things I am often asked is "How/ When did you get started with all this?" For as long as my memory takes me back, I have always found myself pondering about a plethora of things. I have always loved reflecting on the small but wonderful aspects of life. Ipsita Contemplates has been very special and I love to get the opportunity to share my musings, my thoughts, and my perceptions with you. It is also a way to appreciate the essence of Life!